Vumela'thembeka—ekubeni yona'Kuphela unyaka nangona kunjalo.
Ebusika, into eyoyikisa kakhulu ipaki'umkhuhlane.
It'Uhlobo lokungabi nanto oluvakala ngathi lucinezela esifubeni sakho.
Minyaka le xa ikwindla liba sebusika, uninzi lwabaqhubi bepaki yemidlalo kunye neendawo ezintle baziva bencinci kangako.“uh-oh"esiswini sabo:
Kuqala ukuba mnyama kwangethuba.
Umoya uya uqina.
Imithi ayibonakali.
Kwaye iindwendwe…zibonakala zinyamalala, ngokungathi ubushushu ngokwabo bubenze bangayi.
Ngoko ke imibuzo iqala ukuqokelelwa:
Ngaba siyawunciphisa uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali?
Sibahlela njani abasebenzi?
Ngaba sisaqhuba imicimbi?—okanye ndiphume nje?
Loo nkxalabo ayithethi'Akufuneki ngcaciso inde. Ukuba'sele uyazi.
Kodwa mandibuze umbuzo wokwenyani:
Ngaba ipaki yasebusika inyanzelekile ngokwenene?“ubusika"?
Hayi.
Kwizixeko ezininzi, ikwindla nobusika zezona zihlandlo zilula kakhulu zokuba umnyhadala wokukhanya usasazeke kakhulu.—kuba ubusuku buhlala ixesha elide, kwaye abantu bafuna iimvakalelo zabo ziphuculwe ngaphezu kwanini na ngaphambili.
Ngoko ke ubumnyama abunjalo'isiphelo.
It'yiqonga.
Kutheni Ubusika Bufanelekile Kwimiboniso Yokukhanya
Abantu bayakuthanda ukufumana into ephilayo. Bayakuthanda“ukujoyina ulonwabo."Bayakuthanda ukuba nesizathu.
Cinga ngale nto: ebusika, abantu abayenzi loo nto'Andifuni ukuhlala ngaphandle ixesha elide—kodwa bona'singathanda ngakumbi ukuphuma ukuba kukho'isizathu.
- Bafuna ukuthatha abantwana baye kubona into ekhethekileyo.
- Bafuna ukudibana nabahlobo, bathathe iifoto, baze bazithumele.
- Bafuna ubushushu, isiko elincinci, ukukhanya okuncinci emakhazeni.
- Bafuna ukuya kwindawo ebonakala intle kwaye ivakala ngathi iyaphila—kwindawo eqaqambileyo, egcwele abantu, nenemibhiyozo.
Oko'kutheni umboniso wokukhanya ungekho'ukukhanyisa nje.
It'ukuchitha imali ngokweemvakalelo.
Xa izibane zikhanya, abantu bayavela.
1) Kuyafana“izibane,"iziphumo ezahlukeneyo: Kutheni sicebisa izibane ezinesihloko—Ukufakelwa kwezibani zaseTshayina
Inyaniso kukuba, iiprojekthi ezininzi zokukhanyisa ezikwimarike zifana.
Akukho nto intsha kangako. Akukho nto ingako eyothusayo.
Izibane ezineentambo, izibane ezixhonyiweyo, izigqubuthelo zomthi—ngokuqinisekileyo, baziva“ndixakekile,"kodwa azifane zizise loo mzuzu umangalisayo.
Ufakelo olunezihloko—ngakumbi iziboniso zezibane zaseTshayina—zahlukile. Ziza nefuthe elakhelwe ngaphakathi. Olu hlobo lwesithonga esibonakalayo esikubetha kuqala, ngaphambi kokuba ingqondo yakho isicubungule.
(1) Ngenxa yokuba'ayisiyonto nje kuphela“izibane."Inobomi—kunye nebali.
Umboniso wokukhanya awukho'Akuphelelanga xa ubeka amaqela ambalwa okukhanya epakini.
Wena'ukwakha kwakhona ihlabathi elihambelanayo.
Ubukumkani obufana nephupha.
Ibali apho iidayinaso zamandulo zibuya ziphila khona.
Apho ihlathi elimangalisayo livula khona indlela yokungena kwaye likumeme ukuba ungene.
Apho ubukumkani bolwandle bukhanya khona ebusuku.
Apho isixeko sexesha elizayo se-intanethi sifika khona ngequbuliso phambi kwakho.
Iindwendwe'ukuthenga itikiti.
Bona'ukuthenga kwakhona isigqibo:
“Ngobusuku banamhlanje, mna'ndiya kwenye indawo eyahlukileyo."
(2) Yona'yenzelwe iifoto—kwaye imidiya yoluntu ikusasaza oku kuwe.
Amandla okwabelana ngemidiya yakho ayinyani. Kwaye ayinyani.'ukuthengisa okuhle, okusasazekayo, nokukhawulezayo.
Imvelaphi yasebusika inokuba yinto engathandekiyo—isibhakabhaka esingwevu, imithi engenanto, imibala esicaba.
Kwaye kuyahlekisa ngokwaneleyo, loo nto“buthuntu"yenza izibane zaseTshayina ezinemixholo zibukeke zintle nangakumbi.
Wena'Ndiza kubona imiboniso efana nale:
Umntwana ubaleka ekhala, abazali baphakamisa iifowuni zabo baze bathathe iifoto ezilishumi zilandelelana.
Abahlobo bathatha iifoto zeqela, bathumele kathathu, baze baphawule indawo.
Umntu othile uthatha ividiyo emfutshane, ongeze umculo, baze ngosuku olulandelayo abantu babuze:
“Iphi lento?"
Awukwenzi'Akufuneki ndichaze imarike.
Imakethi iza kukuchazela oku.
(3) Ixhasa ixabiso eliphezulu letikiti—kunye nenkcitho enamandla kwindawo
Umnyhadala wezibane ocwangciswe kakuhle uvakala uxabiseke kakhulu kunokuhambahamba epakini okuqhelekileyo.
Kwaye oko kukunika ukuzithemba ekwenzeni izinto ezinje:
Thenga ixabiso letikiti yobusuku ngokwahlukeneyo
Yandisa iiyure zokusebenza
Qhuba iziselo ezishushu, amathoyizi akhanyayo, izinto zorhwebo zenkcubeko/zokudala, iindawo zokutya okulula
Kwanamakhadi obulungu, iibhalkhoni, kunye neeholide“amaxesha ohambo lwasebusuku"
Kwisivakalisi esinye:
Imini ixhomekeke kwimbonakalo yelizwe. Ubusuku buxhomekeke kwizibane.
2) Kutheni abaqhubi abaninzi bethandabuza—imibuzo emibini esiyiva rhoqo
“Ingaba sekusemva kwexesha ukwenza oku?"
“Ndinga'uyilo lwe-t—kuthekani ukuba siyayichitha?"
Loo migca mibini yeyona mithandabuzo ixhaphakileyo esiyivayo.
Oko'yiyo loo nto sakhe inkonzo yethu njenge“baleka nawe"inkqubo—endaweni yokulahla nje iimveliso uze uhambe.
(1) Qala ngexabiso loyilo elingenanto: Uyilo olulungiselelwe wena simahla (ewe, simahla ngokwenene)
Iinkampani ezininzi zoyilo zihlawulisa umrhumo wokubonisana ngaphambi kokuba zidwebe nantoni na.
Asazi'sukuyenza loo nto—kuba thina'ndiqinisekile ngokuhanjiswa kweenkonzo ngokwenene.
Udinga ukubonelela ngezinto ezimbini kuphela:
Isicwangciso sendawo esilula + iifoto ezimbalwa kwindawo (iifoto zefowuni zilungile)
Isikhokelo ngokubanzi (umxholo wolwandle, umxholo weentsomi, umxholo wezilwanyana, imfashini“isitayile sesizwe"umxholo, njl.njl.)
Emva koko sinikezela:
lImiboniso yokukhanya yasimahla
lIingcebiso zokucwangcisa indlela yohambo ebusuku (ukuhamba kweendwendwe ngokucacileyo kubalulekile—ingxubakaxaka encinci, kungcono ukusebenzisa imali yesibini)
lIingcamango zokufanisa imeko (apho ungazibeka khona“isasazeka kakhulu"amanqaku, apho kufanele ukuba khona umfanekiso oyintloko, apho kufuneka kubekho unxibelelwano)
Ukubeka ngokucacileyo:
Ungathatha isicwangciso ukuze unike ingxelo ngaphakathi, uvavanye, kwaye wenze izigqibo—ngaphambi kokuba uchithe imali.
Oko'luhlobo lwe“ukhuseleko"iipaki zifuna ngokwenene.
Izinto ezikhawulezayo. Kwintengiso yasebusika, ukulibaziseka lutshaba.
Iiprojekthi zemiboniso yokukhanya ziyaphumelela okanye ziyasilela ngegama elinye: isantya.
Iiphulo zasebusika zoyika kakhulu ukutsala ixesha:
Tsala, ifestile yeKrisimesi ayisekho.
Tsala kancinci, uze uphoswe sisihlwele soNyaka oMtsha.
Sukuzibamba, kwaye uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali ludluliselwa kwenye into.
Emva koko amandla ayasasazeka, yonke into ife ngokuzolileyo.
Ngoko ke sigxila kwisantya—kunye nesantya esinokuhanjiswa:
üIzakhiwo zeModular: imveliso elula, ukuthuthwa okusongekayo, ukufakwa okulula
üUthotho lwezinto ezithengiswayo oluvuthiweyo: xa isicwangciso siqinisekisiwe, imveliso ihamba ngokukhawuleza
üIindawo zokugcina impahla zaphesheya kunye nenethiwekhi yenkonzo: jongana nemicimbi yezothutho kunye nemicimbi esesiza ngokufanelekileyo (kufuneka iindawo ezithile—thumela iinxalenye; kufuneka uhlengahlengiso—lungisa)
Siyazi ukuba awukwenzi oko'Andifuni nje imifanekiso emihle.
Ufuna into enye:
Izibane zivuliwe—ngexesha. Ukusebenza okuzinzileyo. Indawo yokwenyani ehambelana noyilo.
3) Khawucinge ngale nto: Kuvakala njani xa ixesha lokuphumla liba lixesha eliphezulu?
Qhubeka—Khawucinge nje.Ngolunye usuku ngoDisemba.'Kuyabanda. Ucinga ukuba ipaki iza kuthuleka.Kodwa xa intengiso yomboniso okhanyayo iphumile,“isitayile"yokungena itshintsha ngokupheleleyo:
- 5:30 PM: indawo yokupaka iqala ukulandelelana; isihlwele siyakhula; udinga abasebenzi ukuze balawule ucwangco
- 7:00 PM: abantu bahlanganisana bejikeleza isiseko esikhulu; abantwana balandela ukukhanya, bekhwaza
- 8:30 PM: iindawo zokutya ezithengiswayo zixakekile kangangokuba izandla ziyakwazi'qhubeka
- 9:00 PM: ivenkile yezipho ithi ukuphinda ufake izinto kwitoti't ukubamba
Oku akuyonto'intsomi. Yona'Asiyonto ibali.
Yile nto thina'ndibonile—kwakhona kwakhona—kwiiprojekthi zomboniso wokukhanya kokwenyani.
Kwaye wena'Ndiza kuqaphela into ebalulekileyo:
Ipaki yakho ayiseyiyo ishishini lasemini kuphela.Ngoku unenjini yenzuzo yasebusuku.
Ipaki enye. Umhlaba omnye. Izibonelelo ezifanayo.
Kodwa indlela yakho yokufumana ingeniso iyatshintsha—ngaphandle kokwakha kwakhona yonke into ukususela ekuqaleni.
Kwaye apha, mandikubhale ngokucacileyo:
Ubusika abukwenzi'Andisaziva ndibanda kangaka—kuba ingeniso yakho iqala ukutsha kakhulu.
Inyaniso kukuba, ubusika abunjalo't “akukho thuba."Amathuba akhona kuzo zonke ixesha lonyaka.Ngamanye amaxesha ubungakwenzi nje'Sukuqaphela umboniso wokukhanya.Okanye awuzange'Andikholelwa ukuba inokuba namandla kangaka.
Kwaye enye into:Asazi'Asiziboni njengomntu“wenza umboniso wokukhanya kube kanye."Sizibeka njengeqabane lakho—iqabane lakho leprojekthi yomboniso wokukhanya.
Ngoko ke masithi's qala ngoyilo lwasimahla.
Emva koko khawuleza uye ekuhanjisweni ngokoqobo.
Emva koko xhasa ngenkxaso yokusebenza eqhubekayo.
We'Ndiza kuyisebenzisa le ndlela yokwenza inzuzo nawe ide isebenze ngokwenene—kuba ipaki yakho ukuba nenzuzo yeyona nto isisiseko sentsebenziswano yexesha elide.
Ukuba u'Uxhalabile ngokuhla kwezihlwele zasebusika, kwaye ufuna ukwandisa ipaki yakho'ishishini:
Sithumelele ulwazi lwewebhusayithi yakho.
We'Ndiza kuqala ndibhale isindululo somboniso wokukhanya wasimahla.
Jonga isiphumo—uze ugqibe kwelokuba ukwenze oko na.
Kuba inyathelo elibaluleke kakhulu asisosigqibo.
It'ukuqala.
Ixesha leposi: Disemba-19-2025





